14th February 2008
Straight Talk about Sex: How to Blow your Man
To those who think they know what you’re doing with a gorgeous man in your arms, read this blog to find out if you can’t just learn something more about how to please your man. We will get back to the subjects of the male erogenous zones soon enough, but first you need to know how to take care of the one thing your man wants serviced…his cock!
I am having way too much fun writing this series of blogs and I only wish you could read some of the messages I receive, but it is good to have fun with something you enjoy doing. So you want to know how to suck dick, or you think you know how; lets find out if you know as much as you thought. I will tell you that most guys jump right in to sex and if they could strip and have your lips around his cock instantly, he would; however, it does say something if you can make him savor the attention you give to him on the way to getting him off.
If you can slow the stripping process and enjoy removing his clothing while you see how good his lips function against your lips that will be a good start. Make sure the man of your dreams can appropriately kiss you and I’m not referring to a peck on the lips. That doesn’t mean you need to put up with smacking either. Kissing is instrumental in knowing how the guy can actually take care of your needs when the time comes.
As you’re undressing him, use those fingers to massage parts of his body while you take off his shirt. Between kisses, run your fingers around his ears and rub the back of his neck. As he bares his skin to you, use your finger nails to drag down his back as you’re pulling down his shirt or even pulling it over his head. You’re tongue will be nicely received on his massive chest and against his nipples. Some guys will like nipple play while others will find it tickles and even others won’t think anything of it. Continue working your way down his torso, lick your way and every once in a while, use a light bite and continue working down as you’re loosening his pants. Don’t just rip his pants off, but take your time exposing his legs, tights, calves and feet as you continue using those fingers, lips and tongue against his tight, toned body as you pull each garment off.
As you pull down his underwear (if he wears them), don’t just push his cock inside your mouth…no – you’ve gained his attention in a slow, methodical manner, don’t loose it too fast by just pleasuring his penis when there’s so much more to enjoy about his body. As you are removing his tight fitting underwear releasing from its grip his hard cock pulls them down working around to his firm butt. Use those fingers, lips and just a hint of a light bite on a butt cheek while you blow air pulling past his ass crack. Continue the finger, lips and tongue action down his calves and massage his feet as you lift them to pull off his underwear.
Slide your fingers and tongue up his inner thigh working your way up the thighs with your lips and tongue up to the base of his balls. Lick his balls and pull lightly with one hand, but be careful, some guys are very sensitive while others will let you pull away on their ball sack like you were pulling on a rope hanging from a tree. If you don’t know how sensitive his balls are, you will have to assume they are sensitive and don’t pull too hard while you’re tongue is having fun. Many people will think sucking on a guys balls is wanted and some guys do, but be very careful as you roll a ball around inside you lips because done the wrong way will send excruciating pain up his dick and spine placing you at the beginning of your activities again.
Lick under his balls and down to his taint. That is the space between the balls and his ass hole and it is sensitive and if you lick there he will thoroughly enjoy it. As you lick your way back up to his balls, use a little suction on either side of his balls, but lower where the balls and inner tights meet. The concave area is sensitive and he will like the licking, but a little suction will give a great contrast and he will really enjoy it as you go back to your tongue action.
If you are successful and haven’t touched his cock the entire time you’ve been exploring his body and surveying his balls and taint; then you will have his cock bouncing and dripping pre-come without ever touching it. As you are licking your way up his balls, continue to lick on both side of his shaft. Lick up and down, but don’t engulf just yet. The movement of licking the outside of his shaft will be close to a blowjob, but yet not there and he will be begging you to go down on him by the time you place your lips around the head of his penis and slowly slide down his entire shaft so that it is entirely inside your mouth. As you rest your lips on the base of his hard cock while it is engulfed inside your moist lips, just slowly bounce a little and let his cock feel the warmth and moisture of your mouth with equal pressure slowly bring your lips back up until the tip of the head of his cock and your lips are millimeters from each other. Blow some air onto the head of his penis and then suddenly and swiftly slide down the bottom of his shaft again with his cock completely inside your lips. As you slowly work your way back up to the head of his cock, use your tongue to swirl around the cock and his head and if your man is packing more meat then you can get inside your throat, there are some tips you can use to take him deep inside your throat until he is satisfied with your efforts.
If your man’s penis curves in towards his body, then lay him down on a bed, sofa and floor and be in the perfect 69 position with you coming from his torso region down his cock. The curve of his cock will match that of your throat and fit further down. Take it slow at first and when he is deeply inside your mouth, relax and keep him inside you allowing your throat to stretch and get use to his big penis.
If you man’s dick curves away from his body, then you want to be on your knees in front of him and again the curve of his cock will match that of your throat. Giving you the ability to please him deeply – get my point!
If your man is large and even if he is not, your lips are only part of the process and the rest will be to use your tongue as well as blow air on a moistened cock every once in a while and allow your hand(s) to also grab hold of his hard, dripping penis while you work your way up and down its shaft. When using your hands either use a light lubricant or really allow the saliva to coat his cock giving you the lubrication to slide your hand(s) up and down his shaft and twist your hand(s) circular as they cross the head of his penis smoothly. If your hands are not wrapped around his dick, then they should be rubbing his nipples if he likes that and if you have trust with your man, then I will give you something that will make him shoot the largest load he has ever shot before. Keep in mind that if you are enjoying his cock and the suction job being performed, when you start to feel the head of his cock swell almost to the rhythms of his heart beat, you should back off his cock and go back to licking his balls and back down to his taint. If you can possibly, take your index finger and place it between your lips and really moisten it with your saliva. Pull it out in a Marilyn Monroe sexy kind of way and start rubbing in a circular motion around his taint. As your lips continue their superb suction job on his cock, continue moving that index finer in its circular motion and allow it to move a little lower until you are encircling the pucker of his ass. Moisten that finger again and roll it around that pucker with just a little pressure, but not too much.
As he feels it for the first time he will be a little leery, but as you are sucking his cock and working his ass, he will relax while you work him into frenzy. Push with your finger as you are working in a circular motion with just a hint more pressure and normally you will start to feel the head of his cock start flexing as it throbs inside your mouth. This is an indication that he is close and uses just a little more pressure with your finger as you engulf his throbbing cock again and again. He will burst any moment when this is happening while he blows the largest load all over. The sphincter muscle will constrict as he shoots his load and if he is not use to your finger at his ass, you should remove it. If you continue to work his ass while you suck his cock, eventually you will slide that finger inside his ass and then really see him shoot the largest load he has ever before.
You know how to clean up the mess from this point, so I can let you take care of it. Please feel free to ask more questions by sending me a message.
Your Humble Servant – Todd M. Dobson
